Care for the Grieving

Our mission is to facilitate and support healthy grieving for patients, families, and significant others before, during, and after death, and to educate and support the staff who provide their care.

We provide a clearinghouse for information, resources, and support regarding grief, loss, dying, and death. Support is available in a variety of ways for patients, families, and staff through the services listed below. Contact us at bereavement@mc.duke.edu.    

Tree Dedication

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On Nov. 20, 2020, a sycamore tree was planted in honor of loved ones, their families, and health system employees affected by the pandemic. The tree is on the lawn in front of the Duke Medicine Pavilion.

Watch the dedication on YouTube.

The way we deal with loss shapes our capacity to be present to life more than anything else. The way we protect ourselves from loss may be the way in which we distance ourselves from life. We burn out not because we don't care but because we don't grieve.

Rachel Naomi, Remen Kitchen Table Wisdom

Service of Remembrance

Sunday, May 18, 2025 ― 11:30 am ― Karsh Alumni and Visitors Center

This annual observance is for anyone who wishes to remember and celebrate loved ones cared for at Duke University Hospital. The service features music, poetry, and a time for individual commemoration. To register, call 919-684-4750 or email   Arthur.hendricks@duke.edu.

Staff Memorial Service

Conducted in the Fall - Duke Chapel

The Staff Memorial Service is a time for community, prayer, reflection, music, grief, hope, and space to remember Duke employees who have died. This memorial event is typically conducted in the fall at Duke Chapel on Duke University's campus. Call 919-684-4750 for more information.

Grief Awareness Week

November 17-21, 2025

Grief Awareness Week increases awareness of issues about grief and loss in the workplace, promotes strategies for healthy grieving, and encourages staff self-care. Events and activities during the week include a staff memorial service and other events designed to normalize grief.

Grief Counseling, Support, and Resources

Consultation

Staff is available to support and connect persons to resources pertaining to loss and grief. Call 919-668-0923 for assistance. Duke Homecare & Hospice Bereavement Services

Bereavement Advisory Council

The Bereavement Advisory Council (BAC) is a multidisciplinary committee that works closely with the Bereavement Services Program to develop and sponsor programs for patients, families, and staff in areas of grief, loss, death, and dying. We recruit new members in the fall. New members start in January and serve two-year terms. Call 919-684-4750 for more information. Download an application (PDF, 30 KB).

Pediatric Day of Remembrance

This is an annual event. Contact pedsdayofremembrance@duke.edu for more information. 

Grief Symposium

November 2025 - Specific Date TBD

Come join speakers and our community to discuss grief and the grieving process through our annual Grief Symposium hosted here in Duke University Hospital.

Grief Materials

Grief is a natural reaction to loss. The following grief materials can help you understand the grief process, and support your journey towards healing.

Adult

  • Dementia: Issues of Loss and Grief - English (PDF, 57 KB) / Spanish (PDF, 57 KB)
  • Helping Yourself After a Loss - English (PDF, 96 KB) / Spanish (PDF, 68 KB)
  • Understanding Grief and Mourning - English (PDF, 89 KB) / Spanish (PDF, 99 KB)

Child

Baby

  • A Father's Grief - English (PDF, 87 KB) / Spanish (PDF, 110 KB)
  • Healing Together as a Couple - English (PDF, 27 KB) / Spanish (PDF, 27 KB)
  • Helping Yourself After the Loss of a Baby - English (PDF, 84 KB) / Spanish (PDF, 34 KB)
  • How Family and Friends Can Help - English (PDF, 55 KB) / Spanish (PDF, 25 KB)
  • Understanding Grief and Mourning - English (PDF, 89KB) / Spanish (PDF, 27 KB)

Traumatic Loss

Additional Grief-related information